N. 4/2000

Gabriella De Maria, Luisa Miccoli

Looking attentively to the news items and the morals problem often involved, it rises the need to go down into a matter rather thorny and disregarded by mass media as the moral subjugation, or occult persuasion or brainwashing or mental control, however you want to call it, on damage of an individual.

It's already hard the way to state what is that intangible reality and notwithstanding so hard-and-fast as a chain as the moral subjugation is. In fact the pathological outlines of this phenomenon arises in a disconcerting way only in occasion of mass suicides, linked to sects, often religious-kind, or revolutionary-kind.

Debate about the moral subjugation is an entangled knot of philosophic, theological, juridical, sociological and psychoanalytical conjectures, among which it's hard to find the simplicity of common sense.  

So it starts from this labyrinth of different concepts the researching work about brainwashing an individual or a sect may ply to another, by isolating from relatives, friends, and by conditioning wholly one's life. A mother tells about her daughter who belongs to a magic-occultist kind organization, this way: “I'm a mother in despair. I've lost my daughter ten years ago, due to a wild sect...The wretches that end up there are moral subjugated...They tell tem that mother is the demon releasing negative energies so she hinders young in fitting in perfectly into the sect life ... I never hear my daughter. She does not take part to family meetings and calls me up only when she needs money. You can imagine the tragedy for a poor mother... I beg you, do something, I'm afraid she will commit suicide as others...Do something, I repeat, we cannot leave these boys at the mercy of these torturers...prisoners of that murderer sects.”

The matter can neither be got rid of as a simply even if suffered interference of a parent in his son's life, nor it can be ignored that there has been young and elder people reduced to a psychophysical slavery inside certain organizations stating themselves as 'religious' only for the personal interest of their bosses. 

Another bloodcurdling witness of the mental conditioning by a leader is the recording of the voice of Jim Jones while inciting its initiates to drink a mix of poison and to administer it either to their sons: “I'm tired, I've done my best to make you live well. Everybody dies, somewhere hope faded. I want to choose by myself my way to die. I'm tired of that hellish torment, to have in my hands other people's life. I have sacrificed my life, I've dead every day to give you peace. If we cannot live in peace, let's die in peace. God said that. I've tried to prevent all that happened but now I see the will of the supreme body

We are not making a sacrifice, it is a revolutionary act, don't be afraid to die.”

After these words, commenting by it, more than 900 individuals committed suicide at Joneston, in 1978! It's interesting to remember that the reverend we refer to was an ordained Church minister for long time esteemed for his generous helpfulness towards poor, but his behaviour got ever more disturbed till the final drama.

It must be objected that not all that belong to a group may be defined as initiates, that it is not correct to call sects in a derogatory meaning groups of individuals having common ideals, that not all sects promote committing suicide and that everyone, is after all, free to risk one's life as one wants. This regard we report the story of a person who succeeded in leaving a pseudo-mystic group: “...I set about by these days the undertaking to write a letter of leave from my spiritual guide. It required a great effort on my part: each word was a great blow, sometimes I must stop because tears prevent me from see. I couldn't do it in one time, but every once in a while I resumed painfully what I deemed a little calvary, a calvary I deserved, unlike the Lord's. I remembered the good thief and I hoped Jesus would answer me the same way. When I got to the end of the letter a felt a sense of liberation...It has been a slow process endured for more than twenty years, but it had happened.... What I believed it was a paradise was instead a hell coloured of pink and embellished of falsity...I regained possession of my dead and my roots. I had been stolen for years of all what makes of a person a human being, free and aware of his acts...”

How can be distinguished a group from a destructive sect? When is it proper talking about moral subjugation or mental control?  What can the master be charged of? Which are the individuals, the most at risk?  Is there also the mental control in couple relationships?  And in families? Or at job? Dangerous questions, but fascinating at the same time, as the mystery of human mind in his continuous hide-and-seek play with freedom!

We will care of dealing with this matter with experts that their time have dealt with this reality, so slipping and yet sometimes so dramatically heavy. As first meeting we asked Dr. Gabriella de Marco, psychologist and reporter that over years has studied this phenomenon, to tell us her experience.

In fact man has sensed since ever the need of guide helping him to give answers to the main questions about life and who could direct his way. It's enough to think to the great Greek philosophers, in the Western or to the great masters, in the East. Being a disciple was an honour. Later being a master of life unfortunately turned to a job. It must be admitted that in recent times there has been a real inflation of persons passing off as masters, but who chased only their own profit.

Throughout my experience I've tested a simple formula: the real sage does not lead to dependence, all the opposite, he promotes the autonomy of his own pupil as a good father toward his son. He educates him to elect and to understand the soon as possible that everyone is one's own master and everyone's pupil. A real master of the East does not want a large community, he does not measures his power by the number of followers, all the opposite, he finds his peace in himself and in his spiritual personal poise. As a reporter I was really stroke by some experiences I lived personally, I received the witness of a person, whose name I won't say in order to safeguard his privacy, and who for seven long years belonged to a sect where it was practiced a strong destructive mental control, and I tried to understand which are the mental process it started- off in him and that allowed him to be so involved by the charm of that centripetal force that the sect is.

Everyone, at least for once in his live, passes through a condition of weakness, moments of fear that turn our decision-making capability very fragile. If in this phase you meet who can be defined as a  “recruiter”, it's easy to fall victim of manipulation.

These persons have refined techniques, they know how to employ the potential weak points of a person: troubles with the fiancé, conflicts with parents, at job, at school, the mourning for a parent or a friend, or simply the desire to enter a group to escape loneliness. Sometimes it may be the anxiety to give a sense of peace to one's own distresses. The most evident sign of the work that is carried out “drop by drop” is the radical change in personality, in the style of clothing, the way of talking, strange, far and elusive behaviours, whereas previous interests, hobbies, friends are neglected, since they do no matter anymore. It is known about persons that after having entered a sect have changed their name, donated all their possessions, left the job or the school and moved far away, severing all relationships with relatives.

This friend of mine wanted to reach his poise by the means of the of yoga teaching and since he did not have money he entrusted an Ashram  (community) in Italy. Since the beginning the leader stressed in him a very strong guilty and inadequacy feeling even in front of the group, and reducing methodologically his capability of logic choice. On the other side he leaded him to a continuous and light blackmailing by promising him the possibility of ransoming and spiritual evolution in exchange of a more intensive and feverish work for the community.o because to face the day with the right responsibility towards the community he did not have anymore the strength to reflect on his own condition, he must obey quick, doing his very best, in a continuous pressing about his errors or his faults!

Once a person is inside this way of life his defence capabilities decrease progressively. Another system is that of changing the sleep and rest rhythms. Sleep deprivation is common to many destructives cults. Anyone having lived many nights without sleeping or having stayed up all night to work or study has experimented the trouble to manage a normal set of daily engagements. It is not that initiates are compelled not to sleep, but they have such charges of work that it remains rather few time for rest and only those performing their work perfectly are praised! In this Ashram, needless to say, safety norms lack at all, the right to a retribution does not exist, and if someone undergoes an accident he is sent away or influenced to the extent that he will deny in hospital that the accident occurred in the community.

At certain point in him it kicked-off, he told me, the spring of the sane egoism. He regained this way that new awareness of oneself on which lies any free choice. The work to cure the deep wounds that period left him inside him has been instead long ad hard.

 

If some asked you, Gabriella, a point-blank question: “Does the moral subjugation exist?”, you, doctor, what would you answer?

 

“That it exist, unfortunately, and it's a drama many individuals live losing this way the contacts with their relatives! We must not be afraid and learn to talk more about it.”

 

It's just what we intend to do!   

  

 

 

 


 
Gabriella De Maria 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 


 

David Koresh and (below) the “temple”of the Branch Davidians after the assault of the police

   


 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 


 
The “logos” of Heaven’s Gate 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Luc Jouret  from the canadian group “Solar Temple”



 Shoko Asahara, the Aum Shinrikyo leader

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